(B) everybody who might've been able to help telling me I was wrong for wanting it back![]()
Amen! This "You're wrong for wanting that" attitude is *really* annoying. It goes back further than gnome 3, too - there are examples of it in Gnome 2 as well.
Even something as simple as modifying raise-on-click behaviour - as an old Amigan, I still prefer the Amiga-esque window behaviour of windows that pop to the front unless I specifically ask them to.
Metacity has the code in place to support that option, but it was deliberately hobbled to work only in focus-follows-mouse mode. Here's part of the help text from the relevant gconf key:
"If you are an application developer and have a user complaining that your application does not work with this setting disabled, tell them it is _their_ fault for breaking their window manager and that they need to change this option back to true or live with the "bug" they requested."

That charming little message has been there years.
Oh, and with all the changes Gnome 3 makes, they *still* haven't fixed the "raise-on-click-is-immediate-making-drag-and-drop-next-to-useless" problem.