Thanks for inputs.
It still <annoys me> though.. If the item is damgaged or not working I'm still obligated to ship it back with proof.. Isn't there someway of only accepting bidders with xx positive feedback? Is amibay really that more secured from phonys if they really wanted to scam someone?
True, if an item was damaged, it needs to be returned. It still, however leaves the seller out of pocket on a higher overseas postal cost than a local postal cost.
If the item went missing in the post, which is the main point I wanted to make, then there is no "returnable proof", and claiming back compensation from Royal Mail is a waste of time, usually resulting in a "no", or, at most receiving a few stamps.
This has happened to me a few times by reputable buyers, and I now usually just issue a refund and cut my losses. Unfortunately, this has meant an end to overseas shipping on the other bay for me. Here is totally different, I can control the sale more, and feel I can trust most buyers (and sellers) to a much higher level, and ultimately decide whether I wish to trade with someone or not.
There is no way, on certain other sites, of blocking buyers with less than xx feedback - mainly as this would prevent new buyers joining, thus harming their sales. The shareholders would never allow it! (ok, there is a less than -1 option...)
I wasn't mentioning scammers at all, and think that is a totally different issue.